DBH 3, HELP! I HAVE A PROBLEM... Advice column

About 2 weeks ago I had a problem with a very important friend for me, it could be said that I consider her as a sister for everything I have lived with her, but a few weeks ago I discovered that I talk about things that I did not deviate To a person with whom I also cared and I didn't like that at all, I was very angry with her.

I asked him why he had done such a thing and he told me that it was not his intention, that what she said did not really feel, on the one hand I felt that I had to forgive him since we all make mistakes and she for me is very important for us let's stop talking and being friends, but on the other hand I was very sad and at the same time angry, I didn't think it would get me to drown something like that.

We haven't been speaking for a week or more and I don't want to lose her as a friend, but I don't know how to talk to her to talk and solve that problem, so that finally we are still better friends, what do you think I should do to make myself to her ? I really miss him.

By:Sara

My problem is that I discuss everytime with my father for anything,they always punish me and they often remove my mobile phone.

Usually they punish me because I have a messy room or I don´t cleaned the house.

My sister to is in the house and it can help me or do some things of the hose like wash the diseas but she dosnt do it and my parent they dont tell him anything.That makes me very angry.

Can someone gave me some tips or can game me some help to resolve this problem with my parents?

                                                                             By: Balloney

Dear Diary: 

Lately I am very distressed, for all the exams, basketball, friends and love.For quite some time I wanted to express myself writing everything that happens to me lately.

Well the case is that I'm dating with A. while I like U. A.had stopped liking me recently, I don't know I didn't feel comfortable.I feel bad for not expressing my true feelings towards Ander, so I decided to cut with him for the simple reason that I did not like. He took it quite badly but I couldn't do anything else. At the moment I do not want to know anything about love because I am afraid it will hurt me to want someone. And the worst part is that I still like Urtzi, I can't get him out of my mind, I'm 24 hours a day thinking about him.

Anyway I hope to solve something in my life and all I want is to think well what I will do.

Ill write you soon.

Hi, I have a problem and I would appreciate if someone could help me. Two months ago classes started. That means I also started extra school and sports classes. Well as I play basketball I want to join a basketball team

The problem was that there weren't enough people to form a team with my friends. Then they joined me with another group with another school and with all strangers. At first I was calm.But I started to scare when  there were only two weeks left for training to begin. When I was home alone miles of negative thoughts came to my head : And if I'm not good enough for my team badly , and if they think I'm a hindrance ...

All those bad thoughts came to my head and I sometimes  cried when I am alone at home. Every time I have a training I get terrified and sometimes I think to left the team, but I realy like basketball.And I couldn't be one year without playing basketball. I don't know how to get those thoughts out of my head and if someone have an idea I would appreciate your help. Thank you

Kristina709

ear Paula:

Some days ago, our family decided to go camping into a forest. So, my mom, father, brother and sister went into the Gernika Camping Forest. The Gernika Camping Forest is a natural reserve, where wild animals, like wolves or bears, live in. We assembled the camping tent the night we arrived and we all went to sleep, because we were really tired. The next morning, the camping tent was scratched, and my mom thought it was me.

I passed the whole morning trying to explain my mom it wasn't me who did the scratch, but, she didn't believe me. Why does my mom think I am a liar? I told her that when we arrived to the forest, I felt asleep, because I was so tired, but, she didn't believe neither. I gave her many more reasons for why it wasn't me the scratcher, but it looks like any of the reasons was sufficient and she still doesn't believe me.

I feel so frustrated! I don't know why she doesn't believe. Can you give any tip to make my mom believe me? Tell me whatever you think, but, I think it's impossible make her see sense.

by: mămăliga cu peste

Dear Helpful Phill,

Last month, my parents decided to separate because they used to argue a lot and they were contradicting each other all the time. I am living with my mother and my older brother at the moment. My father has already found a new girlfriend and he's already got a new house. Sometimes, my brother and I go there to sleep. His girlfriend is very nice and she always treat us good, but we feel really uncomfortable. 

I have started getting lower marks since my parents had separated, because I feel down all the time and I can't concentrate to study. Also, my friends don't like my attitude and how I treat them, so they have stopped hanging out with me. So I stay at home bored and crying most of the time. My brother and my mother try to cheer me up but it never works.

I miss my friends, my family... I miss everything ! I just want everything to be as it used to be. Please help me. Can you give some tips on how to get over with all this ? 

By: drunkmariachi_87

This summer, I've done a new friend. But it isn't any type of friend. He has turned on an essential and familiar person in my life. We used to speak every day in summer holidays. Since then, I decided to speak about him with my friends, to know him a little bit. I thought it was a good idea but no.

After telling my friends about him, it was all very calm and normal. But a few days later, they started staggering me. They also started chatting with him through Instagram and telling bad things about me. That way, he got very angry with me.

I feel very disappointed because I trusted in my friends more than I should have to do. I think I need some advice to solve this problem. What should I do? Should I speak to my friend and tell him what really happened or should I shut up? I'm very confused.

By: M19

One of the biggest problem that I had is with my brother. I like my brother clothes more in step of mines. I don´t know how is that posible but it is. For example in one party I prefer wearing my brother clothes that mines.I had sames clothing brad that he but I want to wear my brother clothes. I don´t know what I had to do.

Should you help me with this problem?

 

Dear Marta,

One year ago, my family and I moved from Gernika to Malaga. My mom had to work in a school of Amorebieta because there was her fixed place. I felt down at that moment because I would miss my friends, play Jai Alai... 

The first day of school was horrible. First, the school was at the top of a mountain, so I arrived late. Then, the teacher scolded me because I didn't bring the material. Finally, no one wanted to play with me in the playground, so I was alone all day. 

I miss a lot of Gernika. Can someone help me? I'm depressed and I want to go there.          

                                                             By: Do you know the way?

 

A problem

Five months ago I knew a pretty girl called Lucy.Lucy was kind,smart and funny,she had blond hair,short,a small nose.beautiful blue eyes...With the time I start falling in love with her personality,body.But,first I start knowing her better.

I told her to hang out with me on a sunny day of summer.We went into the beach of Laida.Later,we went into the cinema to watch a romantic film.She starts crying in the last moment of the film because it was so beautiful.

Before the night ends we went into the mountain to watch the stars in the night.And I told she if she wanna be my girlfriend.Her answer was so cruel she said NO.I felt so disappointed on that moment.I don't know what to do.I'm so shy to saw her again.PLEASE HELP ME I DON'T WANNA BE LIKE THIS THE REST OF OUR FRIENDSHIP!!!!